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If a man had to step back and think about how he behaves toward a woman, you will find that he tends to hide his desires. When this happens, he will give the impression that he does not have them.
Otherwise everything will be as if there are only a few basic needs. In any case, this means that he does not appear completely and all or most of his needs remain unmet.
Two Scenarios
When you hide your desires from a woman you are having a conversation with during sex, it is unlikely that you will have the same effect as a woman in an intimate relationship. The former can be a little disappointing to him, and the latter can be a big disappointment.
With this in mind, he will pay for this behavior, even if he is not in a romantic relationship. And if he is in a relationship, the price he pays will have a huge impact on almost every area of his life.
Part 1
Now, assuming he's in a relationship, he'll find that very early on he focused entirely on his partner's needs. So if he needed something, he was there, and if there was something she wanted to do, he was ready.
This means he's neglecting himself, but it also means he's getting her recognition and attention. This will make him lose contact for most needs.
Part 2
As time passed, her approval and attention might not have been enough to make him forget that he was missing out on other needs, so he might have started to get angry and resentful. After satisfying another need, the need for a relationship with a woman, he becomes able to access other needs.
This does not mean that he can express what is actually happening to him now. This may be a time when he is passive-aggressive or no longer has the same level of interest.
Third part
Sometimes a partner pushes or moves away. On the other hand, he understands what is going on and can keep a relationship for years.
. If he is not in this position now, he may have been in such a relationship before. However, these actions do not help him and he must begin to express his needs.
A lot of discomfort
If you imagine expressing your own needs, you may experience considerable fear and anxiety. This can be seen as making him reject and quit.
Thus, the point is that he can express a need to his partner (or another woman), and she will not be close to or meet this need. An expression of need will force her to step back and leave him. Moreover, his life would come to an end.
One Outlook
If expressing what he needs is what's going on inside him, you can expect him to do his best to hide his desires. Hiding his needs would make him painful, but at least not as bad as what he sees as an alternative.
It does not arise to him that his needs can be met and that even if his partner cannot be satisfied, that does not mean that she will leave him. There is nothing like negotiation in his world model, at least when it comes to interacting with women.
A Deeper Look
To understand why he led this life, it's good to take a closer look at his childhood. Perhaps this was a time when he did not receive the care he needed to grow and develop.
It would have been so neglected that it would usually have been a erroneous notice when given attention. In other words, he did not receive the proper care he needed.
A Brutal Time
When you actually express your need with abandonment, you come to believe that you will stay if you need it. Due to the fact that at this stage of his life he was self-centered, he would take everything personally.
This will prevent him from realizing that he is not left behind because he needs it. He was left behind because his mother had her own problems. At this stage of his life, he was regularly rejected and abandoned.
already passed.
Many years have passed in that stage of his life, but he will not know this as the heart of his being. The pain he suffered over the years will remain in his body and he will do everything possible to contain it. If he had a
Partner, the other women he met would unconsciously represent his mother and be seen as the key to his survival. Therefore, refusing to reveal one's needs and tolerating them will be the way to contain this pain and survive.
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